Estate Planning

Top 12 Estate Planning Myths

Top 12 Estate Planning Myths

According to a 2015 Harris poll, 64% of Americans don’t have a Will. Why? Maybe it's just procrastination, or maybe it's the fact that there are a lot of myths about estate planning. Very likely, it's a combination of both.

Yet estate planning is not nearly as scary as some people believe it to be. So to help put your mind at ease, here are the 12 most common estate planning myths, debunked.

Myth #1: If I have a Will, I can avoid probate. 

Having a Will does NOT avoid probate. If you die with a Will, that document must be filed in court along with a probate petition, verified and validated by the court, creditors paid, assets inventoried, and all the other wonderful parts of probate completed before your heirs get anything. While there are ways to avoid probate, merely having a Will is not one of them.

Myth #2: Estate planning is only for the wealthy.

Remember our definition of estate planning: An estate plan says what happens to your STUFF when you die and who takes care of your SELF when you become incapacitated. So even if you do not have many assets, an estate plan can be beneficial to provide for your (or a loved one's) medical care or for the care of your children in the event something happens to you.

5 Estate Planning Tips for Unmarried Couples

5 Estate Planning Tips for Unmarried Couples

Like it or not, marriage is a business proposition.

"But isn't it also about love?" Yes, yes. Love and feelings and all that stuff. But marriage can also have a huge financial impact on a family.

Marriage (or, rather, not being married) can have an equally huge impact on an estate plan.

According to U.S. Census Bureau data, the number of adults in cohabiting (unmarried) relationships relationships is up 29% since 2007. That's about 18 million adults, roughly half of which are younger than 35.

With this rising trend of cohabitation among Millennials, it is important — perhaps more now than ever — to understand the estate planning implications for unmarried couples.

Do unmarried couples need an estate plan?

Remember that there are two sides of estate planning: What happens to your STUFF when you die and who takes care of your SELF when you become incapacitated. 

Those goals do not change when you get married, so an estate plan for an unmarried couple usually looks about the same as an estate plan for a married couple. It is just much more important that an unmarried couple has an estate plan in the first place.

Married With Children: Estate Planning for Young Families

Married With Children: Estate Planning for Young Families

When you have a kid, everything else usually takes a back seat.

Sleep? Forget about it.

Free time? Never heard of it.

There's often no time for fun things like hobbies or other activities — which means that it can seem like there is definitely no time for un-fun things estate planning.

But what if something unexpected happens:

  • What happens to your child if you or your spouse suddenly die or become incapacitated?

  • Who takes care of your child's medical needs and daily care?

  • Who manages your assets until your child reaches adulthood?

You might think that the answer to these questions is obvious, but the law might not agree. And your own written notes or spoken instructions generally aren’t legally enforceable.

To address these sensitive questions, you should have an estate plan.

Why do I need an estate plan?

I have talked a lot about the importance of having an estate plan. That doesn't change when you have kids.

In fact, having children makes having an estate plan even more important.

No Kids? Why You Still Need an Estate Plan

No Kids? Why You Still Need an Estate Plan

Many young couples think that, if they don't have kids, they don't need an estate plan. After all, if you die, everything is going to your spouse anyway, right? Not always.

What happens if we don't have an estate plan?

If you are married with no kids, and you do not have an estate plan or prenuptial agreement providing otherwise, the law in Oklahoma says that everything you have goes to your spouse. However, as we have discussed before, your spouse must still go through probate before he or she can actually get your assets. This is the case even if you have a Last Will and Testament providing that your spouse gets everything.

Single? There Are 2 Simple Reasons You Need An Estate Plan

Single? There Are 2 Simple Reasons You Need An Estate Plan

I'm single with no kids. Do I need an estate plan?

The short answer: yes.

Having an estate plan is a good idea no matter your family situation. But when you are single with no children, planning is all the more important to ensure your wishes are followed.

While the law provides clear “default” options in some areas when you are married (e.g., spouses often have the ability to get certain medical information), those defaults are not applicable when you do not have a spouse.

For that reason, it is important for single adults to consider both sides to estate planning: What happens to your STUFF when you die and who takes care of your SELF when you become incapacitated.

What will happen to my STUFF?

Every state has a framework (called "intestacy laws") essentially providing an estate plan by default.

In Oklahoma, for instance, if you are unmarried and have no kids, the law says that, unless you have an estate plan directing otherwise, your estate will go to your parents or, if they are deceased, to your siblings in equal shares. End of story.

That might sound fine to many people. However, intestacy laws are rigid and do not take into account other desires you may have for your property. For example: